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It’s not like it used to be

Single people have changed a lot in the past 30 years, and so have the ways of the world that we choose to get into. In some ways, socializing in 2015 is way different from the dating scene of the 1980s. Times have changed, so we’ve changed too. Today’s dating culture is far more based around online activities than in-person activities.

So why is this? Well, it all has to do with the adoption of the internet by most Americans. As we go to work, we check our social media in our pockets, we have emails in our email programs, and some of us even keep it on our desks at work! This isn’t isolated to the 18-35 crowd, either—people of all ages prefer checking Facebook over spending time with friends and family.

The big difference is that now everyone has instant access to a whole network of people, and we have a much higher propensity to seek out people with similar interests and values. If you’re looking to date in real life, there isn’t a whole lot to worry about. If you’re going to hit up a bar or party where you’re likely to meet people in the near future, you can easily access their information and put yourself out there. If you’re curious about someone, you can easily find out their occupation, what their major is, what groups they belong to, or who they’re hanging out with on Facebook. But if you’re looking to jump into a serious relationship with someone you’ve never met before, all of that information is a bit more challenging to track down.

If that’s not daunting enough, this new age of dating has spawned a myriad of confusing online dating sites, apps and platforms. (Yes, there are even sites that will help you find a date—it’s called an “introduction” site.) We’re also surrounded by about a million singles videos and blogs, each of which purports to have the answer to your dating woes.

There’s no question: The whole “dating app” concept can be pretty overwhelming. How do you know you’re going to find the right person that you can end up dating? What do you actually want out of a potential relationship? And can you expect to find that, or are you just going to be browsing a person’s photos and browsing profile after profile?

The good news is that you don’t have to worry about any of it. Not because you
It’s all about the numbers

Even if you think of yourself as a non-numerical person, you probably have a basic understanding of dating math. The idea of going out with someone for the first time comes with a lot of unknowns. You might not know how many drinks you’re going to have, whether you’ll spend the evening dancing or just talking, if you’re already in a relationship, or if you’ll get lucky and be at the bar of your choice with your ideal date. The amount of time you spend together is roughly split: 24% for talking and 22% for activities.

The good news is that, for most of us, those times, in most cities, add up. A study by the University of California, Los Angeles, found that those 25 to 34 have the most blind dates with the highest percentage of them resulting in a first date. If you’re a woman, the study found that you’ll have the most dates between the ages of 22 and 25. So, if you want to increase your odds, you should be ready to meet people when you’re younger, on a weekday, and with a set number of dates in mind. If you’re looking for something casual, you might say you have no set number of first dates in mind.

Read more here: Dating Math

Don’t be afraid of the No

It may seem like “the no” is the kiss of death, but an old-fashioned “no” has many uses. “No, thank you, I don’t think you look like an appropriate match” helps you stand out from the pack, and it lets you look closer for someone better suited for you. Not everyone wants a LTR, but a little time out of the relationship can make a lasting connection. Or, a “no” could help you realize that this person is not a good fit. You can also use “no” as a way to help your situation. If you’re a major workaholic, for example, you can let a person know that you are a hard worker and that you have to be in the office. Alternatively, if you have a bad temper, you can let a person know to avoid you.

When can you “no” them? This is something you need to decide with yourself and your family. You want to give people enough warning for them to be able to change their plans. But, if a person really wants to be your best friend, they won’t have

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